Can You Hear Me Over the Holidays? Tips for Better Listening at Family Gatherings

The holiday months are full of wonderful sounds: laughter around the dinner table, music playing in the background, kids running through the house, and conversations with family and friends we haven't seen in months. But for someone with hearing loss, all that holiday cheer can sometimes make it harder to hear.

If you've ever struggled to follow a conversation in a crowded restaurant or found yourself nodding along at a family gathering without catching every word, you're not alone! Background noise can make listening challenging, even those with otherwise normal hearing.

The good news? A few thoughtful adjustments can help everyone feel more connected this holiday season.

Why Is Hearing Harder During the Holidays?

Holiday gatherings are often filled with joy and NOISE. When listening in noise, our brains require us to separate the voices we want to hear from the competing sounds around us. For individuals with hearing loss, this can be particularly challenging. Hearing aids can provide significant benefits, but they don't eliminate every difficulty associated with background noise. Large gatherings can also lead to listening fatigue, the mental exhaustion that comes from concentrating on understanding conversations for extended periods.

5 Ways to Make Holiday Gatherings More Hearing-Friendly

  1. Turn down the background music. We love a good holiday playlist, but music competing with conversation can make understanding speech more difficult. Keep the festive tunes at a comfortable level, especially during meals.

  2. Think about seating arrangements. If someone in your family has hearing loss, consider seating them where they can easily see the faces of the people they're speaking with. Good lighting and a clear view of facial expressions can provide helpful visual cues.

  3. Get someone's attention before speaking. A simple tap on the shoulder or saying someone's name before beginning a conversation can make a big difference.

  4. Rephrase instead of repeating. If someone doesn't understand what you've said, try expressing the message differently rather than simply repeating the same words louder.

  5. Give your ears (and brain!) a break. Holiday gatherings can be exhausting. Stepping into a quieter room for a few minutes can help reduce listening fatigue and make it easier to rejoin the festivities.

When Should You Consider a Hearing Evaluation?

If you consistently struggle to understand conversations in noisy environments, frequently ask people to repeat themselves, or notice that hearing feels more difficult than it used to, a hearing evaluation may be helpful. Difficulty hearing in background noise can have several causes, and understanding your hearing profile is an important first step.

At Sound Speech & Hearing Clinic, our audiology team is passionate about helping individuals better understand their hearing and explore strategies that support communication in everyday life.

Whether you're navigating a busy holiday dinner or simply hoping to catch every word of your favorite family stories, we're here to help you stay connected to the sounds and people you love.

Happy listening and happy holidays from Sound!

Jody Vaynshtok
Jody is a California-licensed speech language pathologist with eight years of industry and clinical experience. She has worked with both adult and pediatric populations during her time at private practice, birth-to-three, and hospital facilities. She is experienced in the assessment and treatment of a variety of communication and cognitive disorders. In addition, Jody has a passion for working with adults looking to achieve clearer communication. Jody received her BS in Speech and Hearing Sciences and MS in Medical Speech-Language Pathology from the University of Washington. She was a part of the Lucile Packard Children’s Hospital at Stanford’s cleft and craniofacial clinic participating in the multidisciplinary assessment and treatment of children born with craniofacial abnormalities. She holds a staff position at UCSF and is the lead speech language pathologist for the department of Otolaryngology-Head and Neck Surgery’s Hearing Loss Clinic. When she's not busy having fun with her clients Jody enjoys spending time with her husband, Anton, friends and family. And if she's not headed out somewhere fun for dinner, you might find her at Bar Method working out!
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